She articulates herself so well, I tune in every time! People have identity issues causing them cling to roles (wife, mother, career title etc) but you can't replace knowing who you are at your core. And when you know who you are, you choose better, instead of being chosen.
Just saw a video of a woman saying she had to give up carnival because she turned Christian. After many of you die, God will tell you “I never told you to do that”
Going out makes me remember how much I love being out.
Like I really do come alive in the night time.
I love looking hot. I love dancing. I love talking to strangers.
Idk if I’ll ever be too old for a good club/party/night out.
I want to wear less and go out more 😭
this is for Candyman! this is for Blade! this is for Eve’s Bayou! this is for Get Out! this is for US! this is for MA! this is for Nope! this is for Love & Basketball!!
Nobody tells you that some of your biggest milestones happen quietly. No party. No post. Just you, standing in your kitchen, realizing you finally feel okay.
I’ve always enjoyed having friends 20–40 years older. They’re never asking about my “goals.” They ask if I’m taking care of myself. If I’m laughing ... and if I’m making time for the things that make me feel alive.
man I hate to sound cliché, but please stop thinking you have all the time in the world. you don’t my love. live life big. boldly. proudly. true. very true.+genuine. it’s what you’ll be known for. it’s what your soul’ll be moved by. and if there’s something you can do now: do it.