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@Nyct0phil3_x What's not talked about is that neuroticism can be controlled. What we're calling high neuroticism is more like selfish ego driven people. These are not the same thing.
marriage as an institutional concept has no value when two things are simultaenously true
1) a man faces financial and legal (custody) consequences for leaving his wife
2) a man does not physically own his wife
there is no reason to get for marriage to exist as a consideration for a man if both these things are true, it is purely for the woman. it is submitting complete and total control to her with her submitting nothing of her own, this is a recipe for psychological manipulation and abuse. the man is signing up to become a lifelong rape slave
number 2 is particularly important, you fuck your husband or you don't get a husband. you can have a boyfriend and maybe a father to your kids, but you under no circumstance are entitled to your own workslave bound to you by a ring. if number 2 was not present, then maybe number 1 wouldn't even be as big of a deal at least it would encourage people to stay monogamous. but with number 2 present as a clause number 1 is just insanity
marriage must be reformed as a concept, it can not just be some performative display. it has to actually mean something and its terms have to consider what incentives there are for both parties. if this can not be done, perhaps monogamy was only a temporary fluke in the development of mankind and never how human intersexual arrangements were meant to be in the first place. i like to imagine that is not the case though... imagine...
Unpopular Opinion:
Men spend far to small a fraction of their lives working in our current society. Most men should start working full time by 21, and should not finish working full time until their mid 70's.
A man's penis becomes a part of his actual identity. It's integrated into his personality, his view of himself and how he operates in the world. Women don't seem to have anything like this, do they?
@heaviestcrown@tardwife4life Yeah and they whine and bitch about it largely because they’ve been told to. “Unpaid labor” is literally a propaganda term aimed at women.