@RudolphTroha@wil_da_beast630 Talented and skilled people from underdeveloped countries seek better opportunities in countries where the quality of life is better.
"Men date with their eyes, women date with their standards."
We pulled the real non-negotiables from 80,000 daters. mostly wrong.
Women hard-reject on looks just as often (30% vs 32%). but men are 12x more likely to make AGE a dealbreaker.
People always assume lack of sex is because the husband fails at romance, but there's tons of other reasons to have a low sex drive! Hormonal issues, menopause, or just being wired differently. Sometimes lack of sex isnt anybody's fault it's just tragic.
@RealDianeYap I actually agree that this argument is awful, but for an entirely different reason. It assumes that sex is something women see as a task or something that needs to be done, as if it’s not something they also want or need
@JacobL1994_ Bro I saw a post on the 23andMe subreddit of an Israeli giving his dna results where he included a selfie, and this guy looked exactly the same lol
The issue is that there are so many factors at play that we don’t even know. Maybe she suffers from trauma. Maybe he’s bad in bed. Maybe she just isn’t a sexual person. Maybe he’s not a good partner.
People are way too quick to jump to ridiculous conclusions that serve their own narratives. So many idiots are instantly saying dumb things like “it’s because women don’t like sex” or “it’s because she’s cheating on him.”
@Michaeldudufudu I despise Mamdani but let’s be real, he’s not a real Muslim. If he was, he wouldn’t even pretend to support this bullshit (and wouldn’t participate in a democratic election anyway)
@GuyJeanSensei@ChudThomist No, I’m calling dumb beliefs and dogmas with absolutely zero evidence to back them up stupid and evil.
Feel free to hurl insults at me, it doesn’t change reality
@ChudThomist You know the Old Testament has no concept of eternal punishment or eternal reward, right? And that the New Testament that’s contradictory teachings on the afterlife?
Sure, it’s common after childbirth. The hormonal and physical changes that come with that will of course impact sex drive. But this woman is clearly just disgusted with the *thought* of having sex with her husband and is relieved that he no longer initiates. That’s a whole different thing.