At this age, I just want relationship yang tenang dan dewasa, smooth, follow the flow, Salah fhm bincang, not silent treatment, tak puas hati ckp, not merajuk 24 hours kena pujuk bagai. Overthinking can, but not to much, nak hubungan yang waras.
Pendapat i, if dah late 20s/early 30s, kena letak deadline kat diri sendiri by when nak kahwin, sebab kena factor in juga nak TTC/ada anak by when, if putus cinta, buffer period nak move on cari & kenal orang baru lagi dah berapa tahun pula.
Kalau partner u tahu target u, dia akan cuba usaha. Kalau dia rasa pressured & takde alasan kukuh, maybe dia sendiri pun tak ready and takde jodoh la kot. Bab ni, cuba prioritise diri sendiri.
Sayang, incase no one told you this yet,
PILATES is that exercise for: posture tegak, backpain gone, pinggang ramping, strong core and flat tummy. Ever since do this, memang tak pernah dah i sakit belakang. That’s the best part ever. 😭💗 I do at home, for free. Meh i ajar:
saw a girl on tiktok who said "when you're being loved so genuinely, you no longer feel the need to post anything- because there's nothing left to prove" and I felt that 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹