I think someone making time for you is one of the clearest sign they care. everyone is busy, everyone has responsibilities, u are either a priority or not
Just apologize when you know that you FUCKED UP! All of that manipulative behavior and being mad at a person for being mad at you, when they've legit reason to be is just weird shit. People love to say they're grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable!
I love when women pivot. I love when they recognize it's time for a fresh start, a different path, a new beginning, and trust their inner wisdom to guide them through it.