My sister slept with my husband while I was in the hospital grieving the loss of a pregnancy. I found out she was pregnant for him, and that was the final straw. I cut both of them off immediately, along with my parents who kept defending them.
They eventually got married and had two children, while I moved on, rebuilt my life, found love again, and now have three children of my own.
Now, years later, my sister is reaching out. She recently lost a baby, and her husband, who is also my ex, was caught cheating on her. She’s apologizing and wants us to reconnect, but I have no interest in letting them back into my life.
My family says I’m heartless and need therapy because I refuse to forgive and forget. The truth is, I have forgiven them. I just don’t want people who hurt me that deeply to have access to me again.
Am I wrong for protecting my peace?
This isn’t your regular akara, I only changed one thing!
The akara came out too perfect! Crispy outside, soft and fluffy inside.
Ingredients used are:
Peeled beans
Shombo, Ata rodo and onions
Coconut milk
Salt
Blend with @buchymix blender