abandonment always feels personal until you realize some people were never building anything with you to begin with
love anchors you to someone. even when things get hard, even when you hurt each other, real love pulls at you to stay and figure it out.
when someone can leave without hesitation, without a second glance, they were never anchored. they were attached to the comfort, the validation, & the convenience.
that is the part people miss. being needed is not the same as being loved.
READ THAT AGAIN.
they did not leave because of you. they left because they only came for what you could give.
that is all the closure you will ever need