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Come to "Peacebuilding in Relationships: A Couples Retreat" Friday, February 26 at 9:00 am until <br />Saturday,... http://bit.ly/6VMun5

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Come to "Global Community Call with Jon Benfer" Wednesday, January 20 from 8:00 am to 9:00 am. Please join us for a... http://bit.ly/7YgBMk

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We may begin by perceiving the other person's predicament or need; it makes a certain claim on us. It makes a claim... http://bit.ly/6kSOx2

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In my experience, there is one personal characteristic upon which all else turns - one that clarifies, simplifies,... http://bit.ly/7obzqj

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Treating people as responsible for their emotional lives is not condemnatory; it is a form of believing in them. It... http://bit.ly/4MXWda

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We cannot cherish others while judging and criticizing them. http://bit.ly/4xWmwP

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Forgiveness cannot be done from self-concern. It must be done for the truth's sake, or to right a wrong, or out of... http://bit.ly/5SFtsO

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As long as I am blaming, I need others to be blameworthy so that I will be justified in blaming them. (The Choice) http://bit.ly/7qGjye

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As long as I am blaming, I NEED others to be blameworthy so that I will be justified in blaming them. (The Choice) http://bit.ly/7QDKXn

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"The more I've become consumed with how my own needs aren't being met, the larger those needs have become, until I... http://bit.ly/8Gfs4B

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The most important intervention occurs in my heart as I allow it to be pierced by the humanity of others. On this... http://bit.ly/7aZbpZ

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The way we are - the way we are seeing others - is the result of our own decisions. (No Other Way) http://bit.ly/8jt3yc

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In every moment people either count like we count or they don't. http://bit.ly/6xu0oJ

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In the realities around us there is plenty - and plenty to spare - that is able to soften and humble us and open... http://bit.ly/5t6mKI

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The world we respond to and our response to it are one. We choose by our response whether the world will address us... http://bit.ly/7szE4s

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A Forum for Arbinger Discussion http://bit.ly/6RGcte

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"It is not the wrong others do to us that harms us most, but the harm we do to others." http://bit.ly/8aGssb

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'It is not the wrong others do to us that harms us most, but the harm we do to others.' http://bit.ly/4SnBP8

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What does the responsive way feel like? You know. Realize a wrong and apologize; Suffer a wrong and don't require... http://bit.ly/7RKbP6

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Greatness lives in each of us - but only in proportion to the degree we don't concern ourselves with... http://bit.ly/5uPZ7x