Let me say this here. You can’t date an extremely smart person and be at peace. So when you say, you want an intelligent man, i hope you can handle those perks especially when you are not a sincere idiot.
My mom has never called me “Oloshi” or “Oponu” in all my 27 years on earth, but I’m supposed to let a partner use them when they are pissed, because, it’s not that deep lol.
Pack everyone into therapy.
“Ode” with a smile/laugh is the only one that can be used endearingly.🚶🏿♂️
Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
If your wife has to constantly apologize to you even when you’re the one that did wrong, you’re an abusive person.
Massaging a man’s ego isn’t the same as emotional abuse.
How can you never admit that you were wrong for once?
STOP BEING AN UNDERSTANDING WOMAN
It doesn’t get you loved. It only gets you used and dumped.
Many women think being patient and kind will make a man love them. But it doesn’t work that way.He disappears for days? You say “He’s busy.”
He won’t commit? You say “He needs time.”
He does the bare minimum? You accept it.This is not love. This is you lowering your standards.
if love ever finds me again, may the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deep as i do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted, someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.
If a relationship is too peaceful, one of them is an avoidant, or both.
Avoidants love when everything is rosy, chemistry is top notch, sex is great, y’all match each others vibes so well, but immediately something happens that needs an apology or responsibility, the relationship becomes a threat to them
All of a sudden, the person is too serious, too sensitive, they don’t want any issues at all, “it’s not that deep” and eventually they discard you meanwhile you were only trying to build something real with them
So yes, it’s a red flag when it’s too peaceful, conflict is normal in relationships