Mufti menk said, “when you hurt someone badly, it’s a debt, against your name, it’s coming back for you, it will come for you.... Allah will never let it go but he gives you time to make peace, so before anything happens, go to those you have wronged and apologise”
Maturity has nothing to do with age. It’s a state of mind. So don’t be fooled into thinking otherwise. When you’re able to be patient in an impatient society, when you can walk away from things that disturb your peace, when you do what’s right & ignore what’s not, you’ve matured.
Moving on may be the best thing at times. It doesn’t mean you’re forgetting, it simply means you choose happiness over hurt. When you forgive someone, it doesn’t give them a free pass. It gives you a free pass to move on. Be kind to yourself. Don’t compromise your peace of mind.