no matter what anyone says about SW, it will never change the fact that countless people have done it to make their own way in the world & to achieve the near-impossible goal of upward class mobility under capitalism. and I think that’s where convos on SW must always begin & end
One nuance to consider with the conversations around the bondage/asphyxiation tragedy is that there's a subset of clients who deliberately seek out non-kink and new-to-kink providers for the unsafe sessions that experienced providers simply won't do.
ONLINE SWers new to things:
I know it might seem like SW is more acceptable than it used to be. I know for many primarily "online" SWers it can seem like NBD what with OF being popular etc. And also you are probably surrounded with other cool women/people doing the same thing so it feels like a lot of us do this stuff.
But you are actually living on the fringes of society whether you realize it or not.
Most of the world outside of this scene probably doesnt approve of your existence.
There are people who actively think you should be punished for this stuff.
You are an outsider no matter how many kindred spirits youve met during your online time as an SWer.
If you are doing ANYTHING with a sexual connotation to it (selling feet pics etc) then there are a lot of people who consider you a "whore." This is why all of us "whores" usually choose to stick together. And a lot of the outside world sees your feet pics to be as big of a transgression as they do things that YOU might consider "much worse." So no point judging each other.
You are already technically considered part of the "dregs of society" by a lot of the normies. I dont think this about you but unfortunately a lot of ppl really do.
NMW you are living on the edge and what you are doing has some risk to it. And you might never be able to truly go back to the anon life of the norms.
This is why we try to stick together. Adjust your mind!