I have a friend who doesnโt tell anyone anything. You wonโt know sheโs about to move until she has already moved. You wonโt know sheโs getting a car until she already has one. Even the problems between her and her boyfriend are none of our business.
I used to think she wasnโt being a good friend because she didnโt share her personal life. But now I understand why she doesnโt. Itโs nothing personal, she just keeps her business private. And as I get older, I definitely see why.