People actually think because you cut them off, it's jealousy or animosity. Sometimes cut offs are because of differences in mindsets! Some of y'all are users and that's all you know how to do, some of y'all complain too much and your energy is draining.
sometimes even an apology can't fix what happened because the real issue isn't the mistake, it's the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you can't apologize for character
i used to think communication was everything, until one realized understanding is. you can talk all you want, but if the other person doesn't truly hear you, it's just noise.
High-functioning depression is wild. You appear okay, show up every day, walk into rooms, and lift the mood of others, while actively fantasizing about disappearing. It's a performance, and some of us deserve Oscars for hiding it.
MY MISERY DOES NOT LIKE COMPANY.
If I know I'm in a shitťy mood, l isolate. I'm not with pushing my energy on nobody else if it ain't the right energy.
a woman cannot be your peace if you are not creating the environment that allows her to be at peace with herself. you can’t continuously give her problems and instability, then expect her to become your place of comfort. peace can only exist where safety and security are present.
It’s sad how anxiety and depression can make you lose focus. You could have all the plans, all the talent, all the potential but your mind just won’t cooperate. You want to do better, but you’re stuck in this fog. And the worst part? No one can really see it happening except you.
You’re not lazy. You’re tired. You’ve been living in survivor mode for so long. Your mind is exhausted. You’re still processing trauma. Be kind to yourself, please.