1. Your friend isn't okay and wants to video call you to vent, but you don’t have data.
2. Your friend asks you to come to her house, but you can’t afford the transport fare.
3. Your friend loses someone and you’re expected to go to the village to support her, but you don’t have money for the trip.
4. Your friend comes to your place and you don't even have money for fast food or a couple of drinks to make her feel comfortable.
5. Your friend asks you to go out, even if it’s just for an ice cream date, and you can’t afford it.
6. You borrow money from your friend and now you don't even know how to act around them because you genuinely don't have the money to pay them back.
7. It's your friend's birthday, you don't have money for a present, and you don't even have enough to take them out.
That's why I say, no matter how genuine you are, if you're a broke friend, you will never be able to be a good friend in the way you want to be. You'll feel bad because you're a good friend but you simply don't have the money, and eventually you might even distance yourself.
And no, we're not talking about those friendships where everything has to be content. We're talking about the reality that friendship can be hard when you're constantly struggling financially. Choosing not to have friends because you know you can't afford to show up the way you want to doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
I remember when I go my friend church for service,pastor con talk say make we bring out money say he want anoint am,
say anytime wey we dey in need of money make we use the money pray say we go surely see money Omo he no to tey wey hand meet me I use the money buy buns Chop😭😭
Nobody talks how it feels seeing everyone having fun w their lives while you're stuck in this strange state of tiredness, sadness, and emptiness that just won't go away.
When person ask me for money and I have to give to that person, I go fess go his/her retweets or comments to check if the person don ever repost my pr before, once e don engage my pr before, I go ask for aza but if e never engage my pr before, I go skip!
Monkey no go dey work make baboon dey chop, that mindset wey you use dey skip wetin dey give me money, use same mindset avoid my money.
Almost 48hrs later, not a single tweet from the President / Presidency concerning the 20+ NYSC Members who were kidnapped on their way to camp. Instead the president is advertising National Youth Confab.
When will Nigerians feel safe in their own country?