If a friend kept saying they'd call and never did, you'd stop trusting them. Your brain does the same thing to you. If you don't have proof that you actually do what you say, there's nothing for your confidence to be built on.
“One does not wish, in short, to be told by an American Jew that his suffering is as great as the American Negro's suffering. It isn't, and one knows that it isn't from the very tone in which he assures you that it is.”
-James Baldwin
The KC stuff is really a litmus test for whose internalize misogyny is at maximum levels.. the things I’ve seen the women saying in his defense is insane
KC and Aniya’s incompatibility is partly bc of their socioeconomic status and I don’t know why ppl are tiptoeing around it. KC and Tierra come from the same walk of life. Aniya’s upbringing kinda made KC feel away and vice versa. All them dog whistles were quite evident.
bell hooks is a ~controversial~ figure but she cooked when she said a lot of people do not want to deal with the fact that they were not treated lovingly as children and are trying to reconcile that dynamic with what they understand to be love
& that core 4 shit is embarrassing… nothing about them hits. They wasn’t calling them bitches enough & they all should’ve brought someone back instead they pop shit just to be sitting by the same disrespectful ass niggas or alone. (Not Trinity!)
KC has held resentment from ALL the girls for his door being empty on day one. That’s some low self esteem insecure shit Ima be so real it’s embarrassing