The part of adulting nobody prepares you for is going through some of the most heartbreaking seasons of your life and still having to show up for work like everything is normal. Take care of yourself. Pay your bills. Meet your deadlines. Just carry on. And honestly? It’s awful.
ReIationships are so beautiful when you and your partner are genuinely best friends. You show up together, share inside jokes, talk openly, have fun & totally vibe like besties. They shouldn’t replace your actual friends, but it’s so amazing when the dynamic isn't only romantic.
I had a conversation with a friend the other day about how easy it is to overlook our blessings. The constant pursuit of MORE often distracts us from appreciating what we already have and how far we’ve come.
Effort must be mutual. A relationship where one person carries the emotional weight, compromises, or drives the growth is unsustainable and leads to resentment.
As a woman it serves you well to be high maintenance — to have standards for how you present yourself to the world, strong boundaries about what you will and won’t accept in life and intentionality about who you are and what you stand for.
She knows she's not a 10. she has flaws, but she's the Good morning, Good night, drive safe, miss you, how's your day going type of girl. with a smart mouth, a bratty attitude, a dirty mind and a huge heart.