as a hyper independent girly (to a fault) i do not like asking for sht it makes me uncomfortable. that's why i like men who just DO. don't ask, just figure out what i need and want and DO IT.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
unfortunately, i donโt like nonchalant men. be present, check on me, be affectionate. tell me iโm gorgeous, plan the dates, bring the flowers, act like you actually want me in your life. Be absolutely obsessed with me
although im ok with being single, i can't wait to actually meet someone who's actually interested in me. The constant crave of wanting to talk, asking about my day, my feelings, sharing laughter & being heard is so rare nowadays. Nobody communicates anymore, REAL IS RARE...
I sent him a โHow did your day go?โ and he sent me a 10-minute voice note telling me everything.
And that basically sums up the kind of person I want by my side. STOP normalizing disinterest.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.