my dad told me “you should never have to ask a man for something twice. if you have to repeat yourself he doesn’t care that much” and I kinda think that’s a solid standard to hold.
This. Just got a new truck bc the old one needed work, but I ride a 14 yo sunfrost/2 eyed jack gelding with an old josey saddle, and I pull them both out of a bumper pull trailer. I’m still proud of my set up, I worked hard for it 🤷🏻♀️
Never cared too much about what others thought about me. Ill rock a corriente saddle, a grade horse, or an ugly beat up car if they work just the same as your expensive ones. I embrace that shit. Save dat money.
when my bestfriend got a boyfriend i didn’t lose my bestfriend i just gained another one & if that’s not the mindset you have then you’re doing it wrong