Arry O'Rourke

Progressive not regressive, we are all humans here!

[Arry O'Rourke @arryorourke]

@MrJamesMay Looks like you're heading towards a bottle crate

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@thewinterdollx This is about informed consent, "you only have 1 chance to make a good 1st impression" by removing the informed part, not only are you putting yourself at risk, you're potentially causing emotional and psychological garm, what about a guy who doesn't mind,but then feels lied to?

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@thewinterdollx Given you post the same thing repeatedly, I'm understanding this is "rage bait" however, you're right, being trans isn't a big thing, if you're happy... honesty and integrity are... if you're open and honest from the outset, your integrity and intent will always be unquestionable

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@girlthatsaves @thewinterdollx 🤣🤣

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@SamanthaSayTen @thewinterdollx You know what... I absolutely agree, unfortunately, in today's society, people are dishonest and can include or exclude whatever information they wish, in a world of online personas and Internet dating it isn't always as simple as making sure though...

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@SamanthaSayTen @thewinterdollx I don't need to assume people are trans... I'm fully aware.
Typically, gay people will ask gay people on dates and cis people ask cis people on dates... therefore identity is presumed, cis person asks cis person only to discover they're trans, is deceitful

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@SamanthaSayTen @thewinterdollx I think the argument comes down to who is purposefully being dishonest, if a cis person asks a woman I think it's safe to assume his orientation, sexual identity is often presumed by both at the point of acceptance. Would the date be offered if a man knew the partner was trans?

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@InOhioB @greg_price11 Ahhh, the old "ESPN 8" 👍🏻

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@thewinterdollx This is a loaded question, no winner, if the dates are purely conversational until then, a guy can go away, and ponder what this means for them, on the other if any kissing occurred, a guy would feel like you've been dishonest, there are too many variables to give a direct answer

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@thewinterdollx I've said before, personally I think if a guy finds you to be a hot woman and mutual relationship dynamics can be agreed... If the plan is to go for "the op" and long term plans are made around children and family, I think then, to each their own, as long as everyone is happy

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@thewinterdollx You were very handsome before, I'm happy that the HRT treatment gave you so much confidence and has given you the ability to live your life your way!
Your decision to live as a woman is your business and to a point is nobody else's!

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@thewinterdollx I wouldn't necessarily say it's "gay". I think it depends on the circumstances, if there are clearly defined roles in the relationship in terms of sexual expectations I think it's how you view your own identity as a partnership, you define yourself as a woman, so a man is a man?

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@SamanthaTaghoy As the Manic Street Preachers famously sang... "If you tolerate this, then your children will be next"

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@thewinterdollx You live your life as a woman, wonderful, you do you, to suggest HRT would make you biologically a women is plain wrong, HRT doesn't make you grow a uterus, ovaries or produce eggs, HRT has clearly been great for you and made you stronger but it doesn't alter your DNA sequence

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@thewinterdollx If a guy was ok with you being trans but said he only wants to top, and you refused... would that be discriminatory as well then?

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@thewinterdollx Trans women who have not had full surgery, fall into a unique category, if you see yourself as a woman, you want to be treated as such, I think the largest issue trans people face is, how do you have your freedom whilst protecting young people who may not understand?

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@thewinterdollx Here is the sticky wicket, don't say & it goes further, that may be an issue, date may feel betrayed, and may end with you coming to harm.
If it's a relationship that is very unlikely to move farther than dating, why bother? Because, by being honest you may come to harm. Be safe

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@thewinterdollx I must disagree Miss Winter, your choice to live as a female is entirely your right and should be respected, your presence in a female space isn't fair, whilst you have a male appendage, female spaces should be off limits
I like that you raise valid points but not with this

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@alexmorley1981 🤣🤣🤣 not my fault delivery yards are closed 🙌🏻🙌🏻