One thing I realized is that everything always ends up working out. Sometimes even better than you can imagine. Remember this when you feel like you're in a hard place or you feel like you're being challenged the most. Believe in where you're headed. See the bigger picture.
Ghosting is the modern day way to completely dissolve a relationship while experiencing zero accountability for doing so. It usually causes the victim of the ghosting to feel indifferent or completely betrayed.
I would like to say thank you to everyone that has supported me throughout this amazing journey, especially to my fans who I owe my life to. Love and adore you and see everything you do for me. ❤️
Shame has never and will never motivate change. The way to motivate change in people is to inspire them— to give them a glimmer of hope and affirmation that their life has meaning.
Stop dating grad students who cannot finish their thesis. Abstract, literature review, methodology, figures, tables and bibliography. They are not ready for graduation. This post is not degree specific. There are procrastinators in men and women. If you are delayed, you know why.
you gotta get used to standing up for yourself. i know that it feels hard and new and uncomfortable, but it’s the type of discomfort that’s worth leaning into—because you’re worth protecting.
self-care also includes taking space from people who stress you out. it may not be their intention but that doesn’t matter. what matters is how you feel. take space from people who are making it hard for you to stay afloat amongst everything else trying to drown you right now.
the fact that i’m no longer the same age as the protagonists of novels and films i once related to is so heartbreaking. i age, they don’t. the immortality of fiction is beautiful but cruel
kailan ba marerealize ng mga tao na hindi tayo pare-pareho ng emotional capacity. something might be heavy for me na hindi mabigat para sa iba pero that doesn’t mean my feelings are invalid, vice versa.
i have no shame in being a beginner at anything. i accept & love myself during all stages & phases. idgaf what you try to project onto me. i enjoy the process, even if it’s uncomfortable. i hope you can give yourself that same grace someday. until then tho, leave me alone.