i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" and i felt this to the core.
one thing about me…If i heard something bad about you i won’t treat you any different until I see it for myself. People cross you, play victim. lie on you. & try to get everybody to go against you. i’m grown, i can see for myself.
When you cut ties with people you really have to just let them run with whatever narrative they come up with, especially when you know you were good to them.