“When waiting for luck, you must know how to guide luck; to design luck is to design life." - John D Rockefeller
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@osemagnum Amen and Amen soon soon,
It has tarried but it will surely come to pass, Habakuk 2:3.He is a God who never forgets his own and wont forsake them.
#Amaramonyenwem#EGEMBATWINS🙏✅
It is funny how every Nigerian girl thinks she's going to marry an Odogwu.
Most of you will grow old in your father's house. Look at your senior colleagues; all of them are in their 30s, waiting just like you. All of you will learn the hard way.
A lot of women will grow old in their parents' house. While most of those living alone will grow old single, lonely and miserable.
Most of you are wasting away your 20s waiting for an Odogwu that will come and marry you in poverty and then spend millions for your bride price and a societal wedding. Well, you will probably wait forever.
A relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. It is not a charity and it is not an empowerment program. It is not your husband's duty to set up a business for you. It is not his duty to buy you recharge card or sub for you. It is not his duty to buy you an iPhone or wigs. It is not his duty to pay for your transport....
The earlier you understand this, the better for you. If you know you're going to get married later in life, you need to start working towards it from your early 20s. You're not going to get married when you're ready, you will get married when a man is willing to commit to you. The problem is, no woman knows the time a man will make up his mind to do so.
You cannot even tell for sure if a man likes you for real or just wants to have sex. But you're gambling away your life waiting for an imaginary Odogwu.
I'm a very patient man. We shall see.
Today, marriages thrived because our mothers were suffering and enduring in silence.
Tomorrow marriage is only successful when the man is "patient"(usually synonym for mumu).
At the end of the day, we will all come to the conclusion that nobody is an authority in this marriage thing and that includes the married ones.
People are only dishing out hot takes based on their own insecurities, experiences, limited and personal knowledge and of course trauma.
@Jolivetfrankie@Wizarab10 Nah people like you go dey see your woman and you maltreating other people kids under your care,what sort of mentality is this,it cost nothing to be a good person,if he/she has what it take to do it, let them do it❤️,let me believe u are just farming engagement with your gba take
@Barcola__@FindingKan@Wizarab10 I love this response, humans and their almost “i big pass you i better pass you mentality”, for me if one is in a better position just help if u can, all this struggle and …… just yo kpai one day unplanned , e no really worth am
@Elkrosmediahub Unrelated though, Maybe that is their own divine punishment(result) of been the first Country in the world to accept and legalise Gay marriage, NEAR SUCCESS SYNDROME COUNTRY, they are unlucky next stop is belgium👀.
@instablog9ja I have no enemy, i will gladly take it am move, God didnt create me finish only to come and hate on fellow humans, if i notice any bad energy i disappear no room for hate. 🙏
Just in case someone forgot to tell you today, the compass was invented before the clock because direction was more important than how long it took to get there.