I dont date men without fathers, and I don’t date men with kids. I don’t date men in addiction. I don’t date men that hate women. I don’t date ugly men. And I don’t date men that can’t lead better than me. Thinking my singleness is ever a man’s decision is where you fcked up.
y’all have no respect for the ppl who make your life easier. the person making your morning coffee deserves a livable wage. the person stocking the groceries you buy deserves a livable wage. the person cleaning the restrooms in the office you work at deserves a livable wage.
sometimes people distance themselves because they are actually OVERWHELMED, and it’s not even that they’re cutting you off. it just really means they’re trying to survive and take care of their own needs, and that has nothing to do with you.
I actually don't want to climb any corporate ladders. I don't care about job titles. I don't need accolades.
I just want to have income to fund my lifestyle, not be depressed, help other people, and be around good humans.
I'm kind of an absent friend like i will love you with my whole heart and go out of my way to give you any help you need but I tend to live in my own world and suck at keeping up communication and I'm really sorry to anyone who takes that personally.
You can show a narcissist receipts, screenshots, recordings, timelines, etc and they’ll STILL look you straight in the face and say, “That’s not what happened".
I was able to break out of that pattern by asking myself “Am I actually in the wrong, or am I taking responsibility for someone else’s actions because I feel obligated to be the bigger person in order to preserve this friendship or relationship?”…
things that scare me:
employment
unemployment
getting married
never getting married
having kids
never having kids
falling in love
never falling in love again
I dislike people who walk around acting like they're so solid and genuine, when in reality they're liars, narcissists, and manipulators. You sell this clean image to the world, but behind closed doors you're messy, deceitful, and fake. You lie without blinking, rewrite stories to look like the victim, and gaslight people. Your whole persona is fraudulent asf.
I don’t play victim at all.. I’ll tell you straight up why I’m painted as the villain and exactly how someone gained that response. I take full accountability for how I react to disrespect.