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[Hlovo @hlovo_]

This is what it’s all about 🥺

[𝒎𝒐𝒆. @moe4demm]

How to please a WOMAN with your hands 🙌

[Dr. Ose Etiobhio @osemagnum]

DEAR MEN, A VIRGIN GIRL MAY NOT BLEED ON THE FIRST DAY OF SEX.

NO. SHE DIDN'T LIE TO YOU.

READ. SHARE. REPOST.

Walk with me, Men.

The Hymen and Other Heavy Myths: A Small Tissue, a Large Silence

As a gynaecologist, let me speak gently, and slowly, and clearly about the hymen, because this small, shy fold of tissue has been forced to carry a suitcase far heavier than it deserves, and because too many hearts have cracked under the weight of a myth dressed up as biology.

First, let us be firm and tender at the same time: on no account should any girl or woman be subjected to a so-called “virginity test.” There is no medical test that can prove virginity. None. And any healthcare provider who claims to diagnose virginity by peering at the hymen is not practicing medicine, except in the narrow and painful situations of suspected child abuse or sexual assault where injury must be assessed. Virginity is not an anatomical finding, it is a social invention. The body does not keep receipts of first times. The body does not run a guest book of who entered and when.

Many men imagine the hymen as a stubborn door, sealed and waiting for a heroic knock. They picture what medicine calls an imperforate hymena hymen with no opening at all, and they imagine it as the standard design. But this is rare. Very rare. And when it happens, it announces itself loudly: the girl will not menstruate, blood will collect inside, pain will rise like an unanswered question, and she will need a simple surgical opening. This is not purity. This is pathology. This is not a moral story. It is a medical one.
In truth, the hymen is a democracy of shapes. Some are ring-shaped, and some look like lace, and some have a band across them, and some are wide and elastic from the beginning. These differences are as ordinary as different noses and different ears and different laughs. The hymen is not a gate that opens once and collapses in shame. It is a thin rim of tissue at the vaginal entrance, and nothing more dramatic than that.

And time, that patient sculptor, reshapes it. Sports and cycling and dancing and gymnastics and tampons and the simple choreography of daily life can stretch and thin the hymen without any sexual story attached. So when a woman has sex for the first time and there is no blood, it is not evidence of deceit. It is evidence of anatomy behaving like anatomy: flexible, responsive, alive.

Bleeding at first intercourse often comes from fear, from dryness, from hurriedness, from force, not from a mythical seal being broken like a red ribbon at a ceremony. With arousal, and patience, and consent, and lubrication, the vagina opens as it was designed to open, and sometimes there is no blood at all. A virgin may not bleed at her sexual debut, and this is not scandalous. It is medical. Men, please, do not turn blood into a lie detector. It is not one. Blood is a fluid, not a confession.

So let us pass on this knowledge gently, and stubbornly, and with love. To men, I say: trust science and unlearn folklore. To women, I say: your body is not on trial. Your anatomy does not owe anyone evidence. Your worth is not hidden in a fold of tissue. And your truth does not need to bleed in order to be believed.

[arty 5 @arty51143546]

@LightMillr @BLA_Deuce @hlovo_ You're right, we can only go off of the video and in the video he didn't ask.

[arty 5 @arty51143546]

@Joshc4wl @hlovo_ Yup that's true and in the video we see that he didn't ask.

[arty 5 @arty51143546]

@BLA_Deuce @hlovo_ That's correct. I'm not, I'm a grown woman who knows that this woman probably just needed a hug and taken care of. if she's that agitated on her period more than likely he's the one causing the agitation.

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@KevinJo02457816 @hlovo_ 🤣🤣🤣 oh no just been one for years

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@ai_shiloh0x @hlovo_ I'm not hun, but thank you for thinking so💖

[arty 5 @arty51143546]

@Mitch_Men @hlovo_ Lol the fact that y'all are assuming i'm a man is hilarious to me 🤣

[arty 5 @arty51143546]

@WoodyWard7 @hlovo_ Lol I am a woman, and yes I have

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@Abdur_Rashid @hlovo_ I didn't say he was a child, I said He was (sounding like) because he wasn't effectively communicating and he was taking everything out on her in the video and not being caring, understanding or asking questions like, Are you okay? Do we need to talk? Do you need something?

[arty 5 @arty51143546]

@Pretty_tasia20 @hlovo_ Yeah? What is their page, I would really like to check it out.

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@Kenyaaudit @hlovo_ Interesting, i'm not , but thank you for thinking so.💖

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@mordybarry Not my only comment look at the other ones

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@hlovo_ And the most annoying thing of all, make him have a period one day god, or be Pregnant for 24 hrs and I would bet money that he couldn't do it.

[arty 5 @arty51143546]

@hlovo_ ...🙄🙄 they say ignorance is bliss

[arty 5 @arty51143546]

@hlovo_ .. then that's obviously not acceptable on or off a period. Honestly, I hear a lot of ignorance coming from his mouth and it's really annoying. Seriously, she was on a period before she got pregnant otherwise she wouldn't have then able to get pregnant.

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@Raindropsmedia1 Aww this sounds like a cry from her soul not understanding what her purpose here on earth is. I've been there before, it really is a different kind of sad or depressed.

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@Teeniiola I mean, if she was my child,I would probably make her sit with me, help her learn to regulate her emotions and use her words to communicate what she's feeling thinking or want.