Aruni M.

unconventionally witty. i don’t sleep. most nights spent here. x

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

🥺🥺

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

rufus 5:46 >>

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

don’t go cold just because you’re disappointed.

[⭑ @strawbrrykxss]

los hombres deben gemir más

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

the brain views uncertainty as a threat and holds us back from doing things that are challenging, uncomfortable or risky. but ironically that’s often how we learn, grow and build self confidence

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

and just like that, half a year has gone by

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

brain isn't functioning well for management assignment atm, can't seem to get these theories into my head

[Lammy @Lammyisback]

My therapist once said:

"You're not incompatible. You're just both trying to feel safe in opposite ways." One person needs closeness to feel secure. The other needs space to feel okay. One person talks through problems. The other needs to process alone first.

One person wants reassurance.
The other shows love through action,
not words. We spent years thinking we were wrong for each other. Turns out we just needed to understand what safety looks like for each of us.

And stop taking it personally when our partner's needs looked different.
Compatibility isn't about wanting the same things. It's about respecting different ways of getting there.

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

when you know, you know.. right ?

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

piece of advice : stuff those feelings down. stuff them real down and eventually they’ll go away

[27. @dimvji]

you just have to get really good at continuing

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

having a mental breakdown at work and then remembering i signed up to be a strong, independent woman 🥲

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

manifest, but also do the work

[୨ৎ @deadacademic]

don’t use ai to write. use childhood trauma like a real poet.

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

@LMolley1 ahahaha okk i’ll take your word for it 😄 thank you !!

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

can someone confirm if off campus is actually good or is it just another sloppy variation of the summer i turned pretty

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

constant reminder that i have to keep living life normally while my heart is shattered into a thousand pieces

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

sigh, what have i become

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

lol hope i'm not a little too sick in the head for having to watch way too many episodes of happy tree friends

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

show up, do your part, and let the good meet you halfway

[Aruni M. @aruni_93]

i’ve been doing this on my own for too long i’m used to fighting my battles alone. but you can’t win them on your own, right ? if you wanna win, you need an army

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Do not borrow shame from the past. You are not that person anymore and you simply didn't know better. No reason to beat yourself up for it.

All you can do is really do better.