I’m a firm believer that people’s actions make it clear that they have no respect or regard for you, regardless of what they say. You just gotta realize it & take it for what it is.
A ngga ain’t never hated it over here 😂 He hated the RULES & REGULATIONS. You not gone play with me. You not gone talk to me crazy. I’m not sharing you. I’m not shrinking myself to make you feel bigger. If you can’t handle a strong woman, go be with a weak one. RESPECTFULLY 🫶🏽
I'm grown enough to admit im not the easiest person to love. Life put me thru a lot, so yea...i overthink, i get triggered real quick, i shut down, and sometimes i don't even make sense. I'm sensitive as hell & i need patience.
But one thing about me?? MY LOVE IS REAL.
unfortunately i'm a person who takes words very seriously, so yes i'll remember every little thing you've said about me, whether it's good or bad; it will stay in my mind for a very long time.
Sometimes you just have to tell people LOOK i love you & i'll probably always love you, but I'm no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me & because of that I have to let you go. I'm not even asking you to change, you can keep doing exactly what you want to do & how you want to do it, you just can't do it with me anymore.
My ex taught me not to love someone too deeply, because the moment you give someone your whole heart, you become blind to the pain they cause. And once they realize how much you love them, they start treating you like you’re stupid enough to stay no matter how badly they hurt you.