Hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. You gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. Life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going
Stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
Ashley Cain is a sick man, giving his baby that he had with someone else the same name as his daughter that passed away? When telling the mother of that child he wanted a kid with her again? Then getting a long time friend pregnant. MEN ARE EVIL.
Zero conflict / no uncomfortable conversations. Hear me out for a second! When you care, you bring stuff up. You bring stuff up because you want improvement, and you want improvement because you wanna stay. When you stop bringing stuff up, it’s a sign you’ve mentally checked out!