Girlhood is going shopping and then being excited to go home and look at what you just got even though you literally just saw it at the store when you got it
I think the most telling thing was Vance’s face as he listened to a Christian preacher plead for mercy on behalf of the poor.
You could see the rage on his face that she had broken the rules of decorum. You could see the revulsion in his expression.
Christ is a stranger to him
and by the way; her current relationship is in fact PRIVATE it’s just not secret. they still won’t share a lot of private details, or any, about the relationship but they’ll gladly acknowledge it and talk about how happy and good they are