When I’m going through things. I do not like talking to people on a daily basics. That's how I've always been because i easily become overwhelmed and overstimulated. 9/10 I'm the only person that can save me, so i like to isolate myself until I'm back to me. Y'all be expecting everybody to handle life circumstances the way y’all do and that's not right, my misery doesn't love company. I'll rather isolate myself until I get it together.
i've tasted being the bigger person and i've tasted matching energy. i highly recommend choosing people who never make you act out of character. there's wisdom in remaining grounded.
Even in close friendships, learn to mind your own business. If they’re not sharing something with you, it’s likely because they don’t want you to know or they’re just not ready yet. You’re not entitled to know everything happening in their life at all times.
You know why I mind my business?
Because that couple that broke up usually gets back together. Those family members that were beefing usually start talking again. Those friends that were arguing most of the time get over it. That kid that was actin out against their parents gon be riding off into the sunset with them next week.
My point is people have conflicts that are part of a human relationship, stop getting involved in people sh!t that ain’t got sh!t to do witch u, u gon still be mad about their sh!t and they gon be somewhere livin, lovin, laughin & moving forward.
I think one of the healthiest things I've learned is that you should let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. Let them reintroduce their soul. Familiarity shouldn’t be a cage. Love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.
I'm not mad, I'm done. That's what people don't understand, I'm not mad at anyone, I'm just done. Done dealing with situations that rob me of my peace. I'm done dealing with people that don't love me as love them, don't try as hard as i try, don't put in the effort that I put in. I'm just done. That's it. Once I see that you are abusing what I bring to the table be it family, friend or relationship, I don't care. That's it. I'm not mad, I'm not angry, I'm just finished