my life got better when I realized I donβt have to be nice. being nice got me ran over, taken advantage of, stressed out and disrespected. I'm not nice. Iβm a good person. There's a difference.
Your current situation is not permanent. It will pass. You will come out on top. Watch what happens for you. It will all seem supernatural, magical, and unexplainable how it all ends up working out. Youβll be in awe and filled with so much gratitude about how blessed you are.
You can't take everyone with you. Stop trying to grow with people who don't want to work on themselves because they will play the victim and make you the villain in their story, and start putting them in your rearview mirror.