ladies, let's normalize telling men,"i'm not interested anymore because the way you treat me makes me feel less than the woman I truly am." STOP SETTLING!!
In case you weren’t raised correctly, it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. Whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes what he gives and reflects it. When a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. Vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. She becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted 💡
girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone
i’m sorry I am a traditional woman when it comes to certain things..…i firmly believe that a man is supposed to chase the woman, court her, spoil her, love her more....anything outside of that is weird.
My mental health comes before any and everyone. I'm hanging up phones, declining calls, ending friendships, ending relationships, halting energies, and detaching from anything that may put my mental health in jeopardy.