i think the biggest flaw in dating me is that i need a lot of reassurance, bc my anxiety & past experiences have convinced me that you don't actually want me & that you'll just end up leaving like everyone else.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.
โCommunication is keyโ but no one talks about how scary real communication is. It is not cute texts and long calls. Itโs โhereโs where you hurt me, hereโs what I need, hereโs what Iโm afraid to sayโ. Itโs swallowing pride, risking rejection, choosing honesty over comfort.