Je vous recommande vivement un partenaire collant et amoureux. La vie est trop courte, pour être avec quelqu'un qui agit comme si montrer de l'amour était une corvée.
1. Activate your core when you walk. It takes pressure off of your feet.
2. If you’re going dancing or walking a bit, wear chunkier heels w a platform.
3. Invest in quality over quantity. You really can see and feel the diff.
4. Don’t rush. A lady in heels should never rush.
As independent as I am, I love to be babied 🥺. Acts of service are how I feel loved. I don’t care about money. Just lighten my load. I’m too prideful to ask for help 😭 but when you take the initiative to take things off my plate, I know you really see me 🩷.
i think my 🚩 is that, I never know how to talk about my feelings. I talk to myself in my head a lot about how I feel & I explain it so well, but getting it to actually come out my mouth is so hard.
Things I DON'T OWE a man:
- making Dinner for him
- helping him to pay bills
- Sex
- A smile
- Shaving my legs
- Stepping out of his way
- Acting happy when I'm not
- Boosting his ego
- Wearing a bra
- Being skinny
- Laughing at unfunny jokes
- Apologizing for how I feel
- Justification for my choices
- Carrying out a pregnancy
- Pretending to enjoy his hobbies
Never again will I pretend to be the easygoing, low maintenance girl.
I love flowers I don't have to ask for. I love random “thinking of you” texts and sweet check-ins.
I love forehead kisses and good morning updates.
I love being taken on thoughtful dates I didn't have to plan.
I love being shown off, not hidden, like someone you're proud to have.
I love affection, intentional time, and little surprises. I love being loved loudly.
I'm done shrinking myself just to be easier to love.
I care, and I won't apologize for it anymore.