I hate labels, but as a ""hot wife"" I do have fun with my husband's close friends and particularly because there is respect, safety, and clear understanding of boundaries without having to spell them out.
We have a good time, and while ordinary couples just have BBQs or hang out, sometimes when we hang out, there is also sex involved if everyone is feeling it.
@Gumball_witch The interesting thing is that we have never had to exercise it because we already preempt it for each other even before we need to say it. I suck at explaining this lol but I think you get the drift. Kind of I know what my man doesn't want or feel and vice versa.
As a hotwife, one of the most important rules with my husband is also the least sexy:
Either of us can change our mind. Even at the last minute.
No sulking. No “but you said…”
Consent inside a long marriage still has to mean something when the answer suddenly becomes no.
Otherwise it isn’t much of a rule.
@KajalKajuDahiya You know what's funny? It's so intrinsic to us that we have never even needed to say it out if you get my drift. It's may sound like a rule but it just comes naturally to us
As a hotwife, If I had to reduce my entire lifestyle with my husband to one rule, it would be this:
Nothing outside our marriage is allowed to become more important than the marriage itself.
Not a person.
Not a fantasy.
Not pride.
Not proving how “open-minded” we are.
The moment the lifestyle becomes the relationship instead of something we share within it, I think we’ve lost the plot.
My husband shared me with his friend as his birthday gift. It was such a wild night. Watching the videos with my husband when he got back, is the best part, the reconnection and reclaiming
@KajalKajuDahiya Lol but good lord I'm doing this again! Even though the guy from the dating app was really nice and cool. But it was such an adrenaline rush!
I was so turned on one Saturday a few months ago, I texted a complete stranger to come into my house and do with me as he pleases. It was mad, but holy fuck it was hot.
My husband always makes sure I am looked after while he is away. So he arranged a whole day and night of fun with his best friends. They were so thoughtful, and took care of me at the pool. Making sure my tiny bikini was not in the way while oiling my whole body.