this old lady just said to me “growth is realizing that someone’s inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.
that “fed up” stage hits different. where nothing they say or do at that point will change your mind. you gain the strength & fight to want better, to want more. the thought of settling disgusts you & although you're scared, you're ready for the life you deserve. it’s everything