If you’re going to live a LIFE with someone, year in and year out, for decades there will be times you’re out of sync. This idea that romantic partnerships are/should always be “comfortable” doesn’t make any sense. Ppl are complex and imperfect and that’s just fact.
things my 4 year old son has said to me today…
“I wish I wasn’t your kid anymore”
“mommy, I wish you could marry me and not daddy”
“you are annoying, mom”
“You’re the best mommy ever!”
“you need to take care of me better” (I didn’t get him a snack fast enough)
Kids 🤌🏼