@jibrin_jj people are very rarely obese for no reason whatsoever, there’s likely an underlying cause that is not being addressed that needs to be dealt with first, no point having surgery if she won’t stop eating like that long term it’s a waste of money
@rj_abel all benefits work like that this isn’t shocking they’ve never been enough to survive that’s why you have a private pension too. if you don’t want young people spraffing from the government why should old people be allowed to?
@evie_@JamesUK101@sashaishere88 exactly she at least knew parts of it as a child. i never said to tell a child every little detail but they should be aware of their own health problems
@evie_@JamesUK101@sashaishere88 the whole reason this is a story to begin with is because it’s not normal. when do you actually tell them cos you can’t hide it forever? do you not think lying to a child for so long will impact them mentally and likely the relationship with family breakdown
@evie_@JamesUK101@sashaishere88 no it isn’t look at any of the advice actually given, you wouldn’t hide a cancer diagnosis from a child it’s not normal at all
@evie_@JamesUK101@sashaishere88 you say obviously when all the actual advice is to tell a child what is actually going on with them, them not knowing can be so detrimental to their mental health. it’s not at all normal to hide the diagnosis from the person the same way you should hide when a child is adopted
@sharrond62 this is exactly what you’ve been fighting for? now you’ve got it you’re mad? time and time again it was pointed out that every bathroom will likely end up gender neutral because businesses can’t afford to be creating new bathrooms
@DoubleBrewski@james_jabroni@ProphecyGay you realise that experiment actually proves trans people are in fact real? yes it was a bad thing to do but it’s not an argument to stop all trans people transitioning when the proof is right there that you can’t just force someone to be a different gender
@orlaminihane@zarahussain999 was he happy to show you the menu that included the so called item that was confiscated? i assume not because that would quickly prove him to be a liar
@LovejoyActual@consumerofmonch when we say care workers we’re not talking about nurse practitioners or anyone that went to uni to work in healthcare care we’re talking about actual care workers that’s the job title, nurses end up being care workers because there’s no nurse jobs for them and it’s not right
@AnnBan58@GearsAndInk@alan_muso the idea that care is for anyone and not actually a highly skilled job is ridiculous. care doesn’t want a bunch of people that don’t want to work that’s how your loved ones end up neglected and abused
@Barmcaker@UKPoliticsLive not really because it’s usually just one day or at most a week and it’s not at all meaningful enough experience to an employee
@TheSoapCompany2@bencobley - employment services through talking therapies and they helped me get the job i’m now doing every step of the way, i think i woulda been fucked without them
@TheSoapCompany2@bencobley i didn’t even get offered shitty overnight jobs they told me they don’t actually have any involvement in getting you a job. they don’t even look at your cv anymore. why have ‘work coaches’ that do nothing to actually support you, i was lucky to be referred to specialist-