Perempuan suka senyum-senyum pas disamperin orang asing ≠ consent 😂 kamu gak pernah jadi perempuan, jadi ga tau rasanya senyum-senyum karena 1) mekanisme bertahan & strategi de-eskalasi, 2) awkward, 3) ga nyaman.
Your daughter just got her first period.
Do not tell her she is a woman now.
Tell her what estrogen does.
Tell her what progesterone does.
Tell her her cycle has four phases and each one will feel different.
Give her information. Not a new identity.
iPhone Keluaran Lama mulai Banyak Dicari di Korea
Di platform jual beli dan toko barang bekas, iPhone lawas seperti seri 6s, SE (1st gen), dan 7 dijual dengan harga sekitar 100 ribu won (1,16 juta rupiah). Alasan utama pembelian ialah untuk fotografi.
suka bgt liat perempuan yang seneng sama hobi mereka kaya nail art, merajut, gambar, masak, nulis, main alat musik, nyanyi, makeup dan tiap liat mereka upload tuh selalu gak berhenti aku muji “udah cantik, hebat lagi…” pls terus pamerin apa yang kalian suka & kalian bisa ya! 🥹
My girl best friend told her boyfriend something that lowkey changed how I see relationships.
She said, “I don’t want obedience. I want consideration. I shouldn’t have to beg you to think about how your actions affect me.”
She told him, “You’re allowed to have friends. You’re allowed to go out. You’re allowed to live your life. But if you constantly put yourself in situations that you know would hurt me, that’s not freedom. That’s you choosing yourself over us.”
Then she said something that hit:
“If I have to keep explaining why something disrespects me, it’s not confusion. It’s comfort. You’re comfortable knowing I’ll stay.”
And whew.
She wasn’t yelling. She wasn’t threatening to leave. She was calm. Grounded. Clear.
She told him, “I won’t control you. But I will control what I tolerate. And if I start feeling small in a relationship that’s supposed to feel safe, I’ll remove myself. Not to punish you. To protect me.”
That’s what emotional maturity sounds like.
Not “do what I say.”
But “I see the red flag. I told you it’s red. If you keep walking past it, I’m not dragging you back.”
sedih ga sih tiap hari ngeliat dunia makin jahat ke orang-orang yang lemah, tapi lo ga bisa berbuat banyak buat ngubah semua itu.. berdoa, berdonasi, bersuara mungkin itu doang. everyday the evil wins and there’s nothing you can do about it.