Slowly realizing the secret to hacking adulthood is always having something planned that you can look forward to. That solo date, trip out of town, spa day or pottery class will help keep your head above water
get in girl, we’re lengthening our attention spans by reading thick, long books, watching an entire movie without checking our phones, meditating, listening to classical music without doing anything else or while taking a long, warm bath, not using our phones 1-2 hours a day
This is why if you have low self esteem, especially if the genesis was from childhood you have to actively work on that. Similar to how you would fix a vase before pouring water into it. Low self esteem is a major leak
yes. and there’s also a correlation between survival mode and not wanting to dress well, adorn yourself, do self care, do your hair, nourish yourself. you just don’t have energy to care about beauty and sensuality because your nervous system is busy keeping you safe.
This debate never ends because people keep hunting for one answer that fits everyone. There isn't one. I have watched people thrive abroad and thrive right here. Leaving or staying is not the decision that defines you. What you do with where you land is. Ask which is better for you, then commit fully.
If France win this WC, they would have played 3 consecutive WC finals and won 2.
You sef look am.
When you remember that, whose name will come to your subsconscious (& even conscious) if not Mbappe?
Exactly same happened 1994-2002 with Brazil. Ronaldo de Lima was ballon d'or winner for 2002.
Roberto Carlos won both WC and UCL in 2002. Ronaldo de Lima only won WC.
There is something about sentiments in voting.
If France achieved that feat, Mbappe is who everyone will literally remember when voting. And he has that "star power" too.
Even though the vote is going to be only for 2025/26, that feat of 3 WC finals and 2 wins will influence people's reasoning and Mbappe is the face of that.
Dembele is not winning ballon d'or if that happens.
Just as Carlos did not. But Ronaldo - the face of Brazil in 2002 - did.
Except Mbappe starts dropping stinker after for the rest of the tournament which can overshadow his performance so far.
I will not join this one.
Calling them a disgrace is easy from the couch. These men led Belgium, a European heavyweight, for most of a World Cup knockout tie, on the biggest stage there is.
They did not disgrace anyone. They fell short in the last few minutes, which is a different thing entirely, and a fixable one.
Be careful how quickly you throw that word at people who dared and came up short. Most of the crowd screaming it has never been two goals up against anybody, at anything.
Critique the game management. Respect the men.
Connections will open a door. I will not pretend they don't. But understand what that kind of door leads to. A job you got by whose-son-you-are can be taken the same way it was given. The skill you built yourself cannot. I walked into Shell with no godfather, and that is why no godfather could remove me. Build the thing they cannot hand you, because it is also the thing they cannot take back.
Tbh I will say we as women definitely have a hand to play in the disconnect men are having with seeing KC’s issues. We have let so much slide and normalized so much bad behaviour to the point where it’s become their default to disrespect women
Iya Segi was described as a fat woman. In the book she was described as a woman woman used her imposing physical presence and sharp tongue to dominate the other wives.
Why is Iyabo Ojo acting that character??
If you are not from a rich family that can support you if life turns, Never allow any man to take your economic power from you.
You must earn no matter how little , earn , protect your sanity and dignity by having financial leverage no matter how small.
Learn from other people's experience, some of you assume it can never be you, It can never happen to me , Hnmmm I say Amen for you and on your behalf too.
Too many of you are making yourselves ridiculously vulnerable and it's just so wrong
#GbajaGate is one crazy scandal because it doesn't just end at the Presidency.
Which National Assembly approved the budget of that Agency if it's really not a creation of Law?
Haba
It took the Senate less than 24 hours to approve President Tinubu's $6 billion loan request.
The 46 schoolchildren and teachers abducted in Oyo State have now spent 984 hours in Boko Haram captivity.
Let that sink in.