santana montana ☆ ꕤ｡˚⋆♡｡˚❀

I’m gonna keep it moving & keep watering my plants 🪴

[santana montana ☆ ꕤ｡˚⋆♡｡˚❀ @askdelatine]

“real power is silent. real power is hidden. real power was there all along. real power cannot be gained and never can be lost. it is not a commodity. it is who you are” - Elijah Pope S7E17

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

I used to think that holding your tongue was a sign of maturity, but I realized that a true sign of growth and maturity is being able to vocalize your feelings in an appropriate manner even if you are angry. Holding your tongue just fosters unexpressed feelings that lead to

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that u overlook the fact that you're being disrespected

[5hahem @shaTIRED]

Forever the “I’ll make brunch” friend on vacation, I love challenging my inner big momma

[Thobinho 🪮🇧🇼 @Thobirama_]

Sup? Struggle is up brotha!!! Oppression is up brotha!!! Salami eggs and bacon

[ꕤ rolly ꕤ warning signs ꕤ @rollymollykd]

I love how this is the opposite of Yes, And? At first, she was trying to be nice about the things people were saying about her.

But with Petal, she's finally telling y'all she hates you bitches

[anya ꕤ｡˚⋆ @wfysaturnreturn]

she basically addresses the comments she gets on the daily like, “personality disorder” and “we miss the old you”. she is so overly done of y’all TALKING SHIT about everything no matter the change.

[el 𓆩❤︎𓆪 @lestbianstatt]

I have a special connection to Lestat de Lioncourt that only a lesbian with a personality disorder could possibly understand

[maria ꕤ @buterasccm]

"you got some personality disorder going on?" really hit me hard :(

[santana montana ☆ ꕤ｡˚⋆♡｡˚❀ @askdelatine]

therapist asked me to write down 3 emotional triggers and im… unwell

[ariana akgae ꕤ @ETERNALG0DSHINE]

oh ariana 🥲

[santana montana ☆ ꕤ｡˚⋆♡｡˚❀ @askdelatine]

having to accept that every time our foreheads touch you get your makeup on me and i look like i have a bruise😭 #stillloveitthough

[santana montana ☆ ꕤ｡˚⋆♡｡˚❀ @askdelatine]

had a partner who was always shutting down and as a person who gets so angry pls… i felt so abusive. took the silence as a problem…

[Max The Airbnb Guy🏡 @Maxtheairbnbguy]

According to psychology, the way you fight with your partner is often a reflection of how you learned to handle conflict as a child. If you shut down, you may have learned early on that your voice did not matter. If you explode, you may have learned that anger was the only way to be heard. If you apologize too quickly, you may have learned that peace was more important than your truth. These patterns are not weaknesses, they are survival strategies, they kept you safe when you were young, but they may be destroying your relationships now, and healing means unlearning the strategies that no longer serve you, learning to communicate not from fear, but from clarity, staying present when every instinct tells you to run or fight, that is the work, and it is the most important work you will ever do.

[Max The Airbnb Guy🏡 @Maxtheairbnbguy]

According to psychology, the way you fight with your partner is often a reflection of how you learned to handle conflict as a child. If you shut down, you may have learned early on that your voice did not matter. If you explode, you may have learned that anger was the only way to be heard. If you apologize too quickly, you may have learned that peace was more important than your truth. These patterns are not weaknesses, they are survival strategies, they kept you safe when you were young, but they may be destroying your relationships now, and healing means unlearning the strategies that no longer serve you, learning to communicate not from fear, but from clarity, staying present when every instinct tells you to run or fight, that is the work, and it is the most important work you will ever do.

[key hollanov🏒 @keyshollanov]

still trying to figure out why this was needed

[santana montana ☆ ꕤ｡˚⋆♡｡˚❀ @askdelatine]

pls i feel the same way🫩

[melux ⋆˙⟡ @metrospiderrr]

@Surfistinhx uma artista com potencia vocal gigantesca fica so fazendo vozinha aveluda pelo amor

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.

[ju menta @amittensblight]

temo que essa mulher vai cantar skip the drama and come with mama e eu vou gemer muito alto na sala de cinema

[hel 🩸 @sunset_tower_]

this parallel keeps haunting me, gabrielle had such an impact on lestat, he even used the same tactics to get someone's attention, the only difference is that gabrielle knew lestat loved her and used it against him, while lestat was just desperate for louis to take him back

[daft ponk @sicksadchris]

ariana not done talking about how she's miss goodpuss