Naana

[aether @bluewdrift]

according to philosophy, the highest form of peace is to have zero desire to be understood, admired, pitied or even known.

[Miss Jelimo @MissKareyJelly]

My dad coincidentally had two meetings at the exact same time today, so he sent my mom to represent him at one of them. A day to remind you all to marry an educated and career women😃

[Cherise🌸💕 @ceejay_writes]

If I call you “sir”
I’m putting a very large boundary and I want you to know your place.

[tea in china @Towmiiee]

they sucked all of the sickle cell blood out of my body and filled me with AA blood and lowk I feel like crying a bit… like there’s no way this is how yall actually feel on a regular my body feels so lithe and supple… i can breathe… it didn’t hurt much when i stand omgggg 🥺😭

[Katy  @Maroup_]

Sarki, I met my wife when she was just a medical student with nothing but big dreams and an unwavering determination to become a doctor.

I stayed by her side through the sleepless nights, endless exams, clinical postings, house job, and NYSC.

We got married while she was a Medical officer, and today she’s a Junior resident in Internal Medicine, working tirelessly toward becoming a senior resident next year inshallah.

Before we got married, people warned me.

“Don’t marry a doctor.”

“She’ll never have time for you.”

“You’ll be lonely.”

“Your children will be raised by housemaids.”

“Her career will always come before her family.”

Wallahi, every single one of those predictions has been proven wrong.

Since the day we got married, I have never felt neglected not for one day.

I have never had to compete with her career for her love.

Despite the exhausting calls, emergency shifts, sleepless nights, and the emotional weight that comes with saving lives, she still comes home and gives her best to us.

She is an amazing doctor to her patients, an incredible mother to our daughter, and the most loving wife I could ever ask for.

She makes our house feel like a home. She never makes me feel like I’m carrying this marriage alone, I’ve always encouraged her to fly higher.

The problem has never been working women. The problem is most people assuming that every successful working woman will neglect her home.

My wife is living proof that a woman can wear a white coat all day, save lives, chase her dreams, and still come home to love her husband and children with her whole heart.

If I had to choose a wife a thousand times over, I would still choose her every single time.

[himé @__imaani3]

Borno kids were abducted from school premises on May 16th.

2 months in captivity with those monsters. 2 sleepless nights for their families, some with as many as 3 kids.

@officialABAT bring them home.

[𝐻ussainmk. @hussainimk]

Just like the way you can’t ask people when they’re going to die, stop asking people when are they getting married.

[aishatu💀 @shatou__]

Dadina da rayuwa, ba ayiwa Allah wayau, good men are for good women. Zaku haifo yara, kuyi raising dinsu a Abujan, Kuma stereotype din da kuka fara sai ya biku. Grown men da rashin wayau da tunani. Sai ku daure ku dinga riqe auren, a rage divorcing traditional women din dai.

[Uncle K @khalid_iyal]

Yo, akwai marasa kunya ma irin mazan Hausawa.
Daga inda rainin hankalin mu ya fara shine the very first time your wife gets pregnant, you shamelessly take her back to her parents to take care of her until she delivers, feed and nurse her back to full strength, then return her to you perfectly ready for another pregnancy. Hada su kayan abinci fah za’a hado maka. 😂
You are responsible for the pregnancy, so you should also be responsible for taking care of her through it, man. 🤷🏽‍♂️
And then, any sickness that requires extra care, the husband returns her to her parents until she recovers. If it happens repeatedly, he keeps taking her back and bringing her home once she's well again. Bayan tin a wajen daurin aure an dora maka duk wannan dawainiyar fah.
Allah Ya saka ma mata da iyayen su da alkhairi, mu kuma Allah Ya kara shirya mu to be taking our full responsibilities. 😌

[Maryam Ado Sa’adu @Maaryam_Ado]

Arewa, don’t stop talking about the abducted children of Borno state!!!! Your voice matters!!! The more we speak in unison, the louder it gets!!!

[Aishatu @Aishasuleiman__]

If e reach your turn and a lecturer solicits sex from your siblings or wife in exchange for good grades, go and hug him and throw him a party. Wannan dai an dakashi, kuma an daka banza!

[Crochet Creator🧶 @OreAkinde]

My god, almost 60 days in captivity. For the next step, the government should provide psychiatric and support care for them

[Aisha Hamman @AyshaHamman]

The Oyo children have been released, thank God! When will the Borno children be rescued?

[Nusaibaaaaa @_nusyy]

If marriage is written for me, may Allah grant me the most righteous of spouses. And if not and my death comes early, then may Allah take me when He is most pleased with me. May He grant me a death filled with sakina, and may I leave this world with hope in my Lord’s mercy. Amin.

[Haych @leschique]

There's a Du'a taught by Rasul S.A.W against friends like these.

Allahumma inni a'udhu bika min khalilil-makri, 'aynuhu tarani wa qalbuhu yar'abni; in ra'a hasanatan dafanaha, wa in ra'a sayyi'atan adha'aha.

[Jade Osiberu @jadeosiberu]

Always get a sense of overwhelming uselessness and helplessness whenever I see posts about kidnap victims because it appears no matter the outrage, the people whose job it is to protect and secure do not see the need to do that nor do they appear to see a need for accountability. Just dead silence on the matter and business as usual. Jokes and dinners celebrating their achievements whilst several families go through the mental torture of imagining the worst happening to their children for 50days. I cannot even begin to imagine how harrowing the experience is for those that have been taken and those left behind.

[Shehu Gazali Sadiq @Rejoice_inlife]

Good morning beautiful Nigerians. It's another day to remind Tinubu that our Oyo state schoolchildren, Borno state schoolchildren, and their teachers are still in terrorists captivity for 50 days now.

Please when will Tinubu rescue the schoolchildren and teachers?

[Bella🧜‍♀️ @IAyshatu]

I'm a proud big sis y'all @Layhaxx
My 17yr old sister just published a book she has been writing since she was 14yr
please kindly do well to show her love by getting the book,she sells for 10k only, And trust me it worth the buy she sold over 500 soft copies.

[No filter Skin @NoFilterSkin]

Your daughter just got her first period.
Do not tell her she is a woman now.
Tell her what estrogen does.
Tell her what progesterone does.
Tell her her cycle has four phases and each one will feel different.
Give her information. Not a new identity.

[S. 🏆 @saratu]

50 days of sexual and physical violence. In the middle of rainy season. With our govt likely betting that we will all forget.