@ResilienttHuman This is so very true. It always comes back down to:
Am I victim? Do I live at effect? Do I have reasons why I didn't get results?
Am I a warrior?Do I live at cause? Do I have results?
@ResilienttHuman I think it's the trust you lost in yourself that's the hardest: trust in your ability to assess situations, judge others, trust in your belief system, in your own values.
@ResilienttHuman Mine: be in the now + the past is only relevant as lessons learnt + enjoy the moment 100% (a cleaned house isn't as meaningful as quality time spent with a friend) + be in charge of my happiness.
@disenchantInCan I think at some point, you want answers to be able to understand who the person you chose to be your partner really is. I also think that these questions are essential in getting the whole picture. We can only rebuild a relationship once we know who we are dealing with.
@ResilienttHuman If you are frustrated and anxious in your relationships it's because you give out your own power. You let others' moods, expectations, judgements, actions, define who you are. You hand over your control to people you cannot control. Live from within!