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🧘🏻‍♀️ Always Keep The Faith! Everything is relative, nothing absolute except One✨️ Biotech enthusiast • Tech savvy

[🌌 @asminiss]

"We are the product of our choices, so it is essential then that we choose well."

[🌌 @asminiss]

You cant help a person which he doesn't ready to be helped
He will think you betray him.

When a person isn't ready to change or receive support, they often view well-intentioned advice as criticism, interference, or a breach of trust.

[🌌 @asminiss]

Aku belum pernah pacaran serius, nanti kalo mau pacaran atau nikah harus ada prenup
"Kalo ada masalah A, B, C gimana?"
"Kalo lagi butuh.. acara... dll?"
Pasti ada pertanyaan. "Kalo aku/kamu mati duluan gimana?"
Diskusi ya, jangan lebay tapi emang harus realistis aja

[🌌 @asminiss]

@keluhkesahkonoh Dia cuma bilang, ngapain di tf
Dengerin aja deh dia menggerutu

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Aneh banget
Masa sering ga sadar akhir bulan dan awal bulan di real life yg ga ada kaitannya sm kerjaan
Tapi sangat sadar mau akhir bulan dan persiapan matang awal bulan buat kerja

Ga peduli libur lembur hari apa jam berapa pokoknya akhir bulan nih😂
Awas sistemnya ke lock tiba2

[🌌 @asminiss]

I rewrote a 25-year-old rule that said, "If I am not perfectly productive, I am not safe." I allowed myself to choose my own biological need for sleep over an endless list of tasks. That is a profound 1% upgrade in choosing my well-being over hyper-responsibility.

[🌌 @asminiss]

I believe that I'm busier than my friends bcs they stated "gabut" themselves. I feel many responsibilities since I was 5. Maintaining a house alone and protecting your mom are my big tasks I live in. Beside I feel threatened even in structured and safe situations

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"Your mind is constantly running an operational background check on survival, stability, and safety. You are busier because you are carrying the weight of multiple people's well-being on your shoulders."

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Kamu sudah berjalan sangat jauh dengan kekuatan kakimu sendiri, dan itu hebat. Namun, tidak ada sistem yang bisa berjalan tanpa maintenance dan dukungan. Mengakui bahwa kamu ingin dibantu adalah langkah pertama yang sangat berani🤗💕

[🌌 @asminiss]

"Kenapa aku iri dengan orang yang mendapat bantuan meskipun itu bantuan kecil seperti hanya sekedar menawarkan bantuan?
Aku merasa tidak pernah mendapat bantuan."

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Ubah Sudut Pandang terhadap Rasa Iri: Setiap kali rasa iri itu muncul, katakan pada diri sendiri: "Aku iri karena aku sedang lelah dan butuh istirahat. Ini tanda bahwa aku perlu lebih menyayangi diriku sendiri hari ini, bukan karena aku orang yang dengki."