Brick by BRICKS 🧱🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️ You don’t find the right relationship, you build it WITH patience & effort. You know what they ALWAYS said GOOD PEOPLE are DIFFICULT to find UNTIL they are COMPLETELY GONE out of your life.
Playing dumb sometimes is the best way to see everything while staying quiet. You just get to watch people reveal themselves, thinking you don't notice.
AVOIDANTS BE LIKE:
"I'm going to enter your life, text you daily, make you believe we're building forever, and make you feel safe enough to fall hard.
Then the moment I'm expected to communicate like an adult, own my behavior, or face conflict - I'll vanish. Because running from my problems is easier than facing them.
Then I'll tell everyone 'it just didn't work out' because I'm too afraid to speak the truth. 1/7
The older you get, the more you realize some people only know how to relate to the version of you that was struggling. The minute you become confident, start making money, set boundaries, get healthy, get happy, or simply stop needing their approval, the energy changes. That's when you learn who was actually rooting for you and who was just comfortable with you being beneath them. And honestly? That's a pretty damn useful thing to find out.
📍‼️“She can’t keep a ngga”. It’s so easy to keep a ngga ya’ll. I promise. All you gotta do is allow them to lie and cheat in peace, don’t challenge their patterns, and don’t address anything they do that hurts you. You’ll keep them for years and years until they find their next toy.