I think one of the healthiest things I’ve ever learned is that you should allow others to reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. Give people space to become who they are without assuming you know who they are just bc you’ve been friends/family for years
Don’t become like your parents who used their trauma as an excuse for treating you poorly. If you’re an adult, you’ve got to get serious about healing your childhood wounds. You’re responsible for breaking the cycle.
A professor at Winston-Salem State University had one of her students arrested for the simple fact she wouldn’t apologize to her. Not only did she pull her race card, but when the other students came at her she played victim.
Imagine .. you go to work 3 hours into your shift your bf break up with you .then at the end of your shift you get fired .. then you get in the car and discover your battery dead .. and when you finally get home you go lay down on your bed .. and then the ceiling fan falls on you
Little thread: I had a patient today who was a little elderly black woman. She was telling me that she really didn’t want to go to the hospital because her hair wasn’t done and she notices that yt doctors and nurse treat her differently when her hair is done vs. when it isn’t.
I had a guy friend with a Ph.D in engineering ask me last week how women pee with a tampon in and this is why men shouldn’t be passing laws about women’s bodies.
I was born in the wrong era of love. I want polaroids of us smiling, star gazing, drives, ice creams dates, picnics.. spending time together & going to museums, art galleries and cafés.. the concept of love I want to experience just isn’t around anymore & that sucks
The Lizzo hate still really gets under my skin because all that woman does is put out good music, love her beautiful self, AND cheer for everyone else to win.
The girls will never understand being in college and needing a new fit for a party weekend and all you got around you is Charlotte Russe 😭 everybody and they mama in the store trying to find a fit Omg
Do y’all nieces and nephews call y’all “aunt ___” ? Cause mine don’t. I don’t mind but it’s kinda weird cause I don’t think I’ve ever called my aunts just their name.