I gotta marry somebody that takes holidays seriously. A family person. Birthdays, graduations, anniversaries etc, must all be celebrated fully in my household😌
A narcissist doesn't want to discuss their actions. They want to provoke your reactions, so they can use your reactions as distractions from their actions.
Please don't ever get tired of being a good person with a good heart... i know it sucks being taken advantage of and feeling like it's better to be cold hearted, but people like you matter and are so important to the world.