When you break down the ROI on male attention, you'll realise it's not even that serious.
- 90% of those who approach you don't mean you well. Straight up.
- Half of the remaining 10% are nothing to write home about.
- The remaining 5% may be worth spending your time with, but from spending time with that 5%, you'll realise half of them are not what they initially present as.
So you're essentially left with maybe 2 to 3% of this 'male attention' that would truly be worth your time and effort. So why is that something to define yourself by? Make it make sense please.