Somebody said, “One thing I love about God is, He'll bring you out of situations you got yourself into; and still not hold it against you”.
And I felt that!
At first, your wife will treat you the way she wants you to treat her.
She will be soft, loving, respectful, and patient hoping you will respond the same way.
But over time, she starts treating you the way you treat her.
-If you become cold, she becomes cold.
-If you become distant, she pulls away.
-If you stop putting in effort, she stops too.
Most wives begin with their best version.
What they become later is often a reflection of how their husband has been handling them.
This Bella and Sheggzz saga is a typical example of how men parade themselves as head of the home and the providers..
While the whole time, their wives are the one funding the family..
Worst part is how they still go ahead and treat the woman funding them very badly..
Sheggzzz is a badly raised boy, that thinks since he has a penis he can do whatever he likes..
Badly raised, broke, arrogant, abusivee, entitled MF.. such a terrible combination..
Whoever that raised that boy did the society a huge disservice..
Nobody talks about how people who grew up in broken and dysfunctional homes don’t have big dreams. They only dream of having a home no one can take away and a person who won’t abandon them.
Sheggz has been refusing to pay Bella’s 11 million debt since 2023 and will fight her each time she ask for it , thre@tens to k!ll himself if Bella leaves him. And his mum is out here blaming Gbemi for exposing him instead of the Son for being an ab#ser
As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, It’s hurtful and manipulative, and it’s not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. Taking care of them is your responsibility.
A narcissist is:
A victim of everything,
responsible for nothing,
offended by everything,
contributing nothing,
yet entitled to everything.
- Libriscent