Perelade

It’s a big big world and I’m just trying to find my way

[Perelade @atomicpere]

Convocation day 🎉🎉
Grateful to God, to my parents, family and friends who kept me sane through Medical School. I finished with flying colours 😊
Looks like the end, but it's just the beginning.

[Jade Osiberu @jadeosiberu]

I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.

Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.

If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.

[Oreoluwa Bukola, CFA. @BukkyOA]

📌 I have never achieved anything in my life and career at record time.

[Perelade @atomicpere]

@C_enyinnah1 Just saw your message. Thank you so much

[ᴅᴇʙꜱ✨ @Bigdebs222]

Let me just accept my calling.

[Perelade @atomicpere]

@Emmy_dann So much uncertainty 😔

[Perelade @atomicpere]

@C_enyinnah1 Where can I find it?

[Sai Ishaya @Sai_Ishaya_]

There's currently a scam going on where someone sends a link to your DM and asks you to vote by using your Microsoft, Twitter or Insta account. It'll be difficult to login & they'll say maybe you can vote with your backup code. @m_jay10 and @cazeemtunde have been victims so disregard any links they've sent you in the DMs. I think @m_jay10 has restored her account.

[woman of modest income @Tellemmmmm]

Stamina is one of my fav songs.

[Perelade @atomicpere]

@_emmaco4real_ It’s okay to feel confused and not have everything figured out yet.
You’re a clean slate now. Don’t be distracted by your yesterday’s success or failures. Apply yourself to every learning opportunity.
Ask questions. You’ve been thrown into a community of snrs that will answer

[Congress woman M💫 @_mahreamm]

I don’t like this guy they used as the love interest in Office Romance.

[Perelade @atomicpere]

@_emmaco4real_ @heis_inem Congratulations 🎉

[Perelade @atomicpere]

Congratulations my dear 🎊🎊🥳

[YAN🩷 @tiyansays]

It’s Dr. Imade to you now🤍

Distinction in ANATOMY
Distinction in BIOCHEMISTRY
Distinction in PATHOLOGY
Distinction in PHARMACOLOGY
Distinction in MEDICINE
Distinction in SURGERY

This girl is beyond grateful,
El-Roi🤍

[Perelade @atomicpere]

Congratulations my love 🥳🎊❤️❤️

[𝕆𝕘_𝕛𝕠𝕝𝕝𝕠𝕗 @C_enyinnah1]

Well guys
Thank you for riding with me!
It’s Dr Enyinnah Chidinma Favour (MBBS; BABCOCK) now
Distinction in medicine
Distinction in surgery
All glory to Jah for the journey!

[Perelade @atomicpere]

Congratulations Tio 🎉🎊

[TIO @THEOCRUZ]

Three long years of growth, resilience, and perseverance. This journey has been filled with highs, lows, lessons, and unforgettable experiences. I am deeply grateful for every moment because each one shaped me and brought me to this monumental milestone.

IM residency 👨🏾‍🎓✅

[TIO @THEOCRUZ]

Three long years of growth, resilience, and perseverance. This journey has been filled with highs, lows, lessons, and unforgettable experiences. I am deeply grateful for every moment because each one shaped me and brought me to this monumental milestone.

IM residency 👨🏾‍🎓✅

[Perelade @atomicpere]

Congratulations Chidera 🥳 ✨✨

[Amani @nobbie_jr]

Thankful for family, friends, and everyone who has made the journey lighter, meaningful, and full of love.
Proud to belong ❤️ 🙇🏾‍♂️.

[Perelade @atomicpere]

@Kolettegene Fine girl 😍😍

[Perelade @atomicpere]

@ruthefordml @magic_baggins Congratulations 🎈🎉

[Oloye. @Ol0ye]

Rashida Tajudeen -11, Ahmed Ramoni -8, Abdulsalam Toyib -4, Baraka Abioye -16, Fatimo Jimoh -15, Hassan Azeez -14, Joshua Adeleke -13, Samuel Oyedele -7, Emmanuel Oyedele -4, Lege Taiwo -12, Balkis Ayanwale -8, Asa David 10, Shuaibu Aliyu 10

@officialABAT #BringBackOurChildren