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Analyzing < Doing

Looping through your traumas can intensify stress, even when you're trying to understand what happened. Try somatic exercises if analyzing makes you feel worse.

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Having an avoidant partner can make you more avoidant. Both of you may stop discussing difficult topics because avoiding feels easier. Less fighting doesn't always mean the relationship got better.

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Your brain after regulating:

Inner-child work, journaling, slow breathing and gratitude can help you feel calmer and notice support. Small practices, repeated with care.

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Avoiding safe situations that remind you of your trauma can feel good in the moment

But it also keeps your PTSD going

You're removing a chance for you to discover that the situation is safe

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Asking an avoidant partner to change can feel controlling to them. Losing independence can threaten their safety. Their anger isn't about you; it's how they are.

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Less scrolling, more giving back to yourself:

🌳 A walk in the park
📞 Calling a friend
😴 A full night’s sleep
💪 A workout

Small swaps that can support your mood and connection. Which one are you trying this week?

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Childhood trauma literally changes how your brain responds when positive things happen

Neglect as a kid can make good things feel less good. Over time, leading to depression

That's why we're all so addicted to dopamine now...

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Who's the one person you find hardest to say no to? https://t.co/kiJDWPKrYH

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Which one did you try first when stress got bad: magnesium, ashwagandha or L-theanine? https://t.co/DQrKafAXr5

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When you say yes and feel a little sick after, what are you scared would happen if you said no? https://t.co/kiJDWPKrYH

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When they don't text back, what helps you get through the hour after? https://t.co/DQrKafApBx

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I practiced speaking up on the smallest thing I could find: telling the Starbucks drive-thru they forgot my oat milk. My heart was pounding anyway, lol. https://t.co/kiJDWPKrYH

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Do you have something you do right before a hard conversation? Like a walk, or hiding in the bathroom for a minute? https://t.co/DQrKafApBx

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What does your body do right before you say yes to something you don't want? https://t.co/kiJDWPKZOf

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The FDA doesn't check whether your stress gummy works before it hits the shelf at Target. I found that out after spending a few hundred dollars on them. https://t.co/DQrKafApBx

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My boss texts "quick call?" at 6pm and I've typed "of course!! whenever works for you" before I even check if I'm free. Turns out that's called fawning. https://t.co/kiJDWPKZOf

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Is there something from when you were little that you still talk yourself out of being upset about?

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When you're too stressed to sleep, what actually gets you there? https://t.co/DQrKafApBx

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Denmark tried to ban ashwagandha in supplements back in 2023. I had no idea until I went back through the research on my own gummies. https://t.co/DQrKafApBx

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When you start spiraling, how old do you feel in there?

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